Mindless Ramblings of a Disproportioned Woman

2012-01-09T22:20:00.000-06:00

You will be missed so very much.

My heart is heavy right now. I want to pick up the phone and call you, but I know you won't answer. I won't ever hear your voice again. I won't ever see your smile, or hear you tell me you love me. (this is all about me you know ;) I walk into your house and look for you in your bed, but you are not there. You left us, and I should be comforted by knowing you have joined Dad, but I am selfish. I want you here. Here with me, so I can physically touch you, hear you, talk to you, and love you.

I miss you mom, and I will everyday for the rest of my life.
whimp

2012-01-01T15:27:00.000-06:00

Merry Everything...
No, I haven't fallen off the earth. I was just taking a break for a bit. Our lives really haven't been that interesting, and man it sure seemed like 2011 flew by. We have had some sad news in our family recently. Around Oct. my oldest brother was diagnosed with cancer. It was located on his tongue and safely removed. Cancer, however; wasn't finished with our family. My mother (a 2 time cancer survivor) was informed in Dec. the cancer we thought she beat in 2008, was indeed back. It is inoperable and they cannot do radiation. They will treat it with Chemo, and hopefully it will keep it from growing.
On with info on the kiddos..Danny has grown 2 inches since school started, he is now in men's clothing, and will be shaving soon I am sure. He is slowly adjusting with a new school, and is still his fun loving self. Riles loves her new school, grew an inch, lost five pounds and went back a size in jeans. We had to buy a belt to keep her pants from falling down. She is still as spirited as ever, but I cannot imagine my life without either of them.
Our Christmas was pretty low key and the kids managed to score lots of things from their Christmas lists. As for me, Chris gave me money for christmas and my birthday and I bought myself a Silhouette Cameo. It is simply the best machine. I am sure I will find things I am not so happy about, but for now..it cuts way better than my cricut. I haven't decided if I will keep the bug or not. Anyway, here are pictures of our christmas fun.
Happy New Year everyone.
wendy

2011-09-25T12:01:00.000-05:00

Birthdays 2011 (better late than never :)

Since the kiddos birthdays are just days apart, we always celebrate together. This year they decided on a bowling party. It was so much fun and I loved watching all the kiddos have so much fun. We are so blessed to have so much family live near by. We (family) are always commenting how very blessed and lucky are kiddos are to grow up and form such lasting relationships with their cousins. Sure they fight as all kids do, but the bond they share is simply amazing.
whimp

2011-08-27T10:55:00.000-05:00

A freshman, a third grader, and a new district...
The kiddos started their new school last week. Things seem to be going well. Riles loves "her new friends and we don't have lots of kids in my class. My teacher can answer my questions instead of ignoring me." Danno has said "it's cool. The kids are nice here too." I was worried he would not adapt well. He is a creature of habit and likes a specific routine. A routine without change and a familiar environment. (He is smiling when he comes home and loves going to grandma's.) Riles on the other hand, craves for activity and change. She has to perform tasks a certain way, but doesn't mind if you change things up a bit. I love to see the light in her eyes when she talks about learning. She loves Diary of a Whimpy Kid and any world record book. :)
I am also back to school with 18 new little ones. I forget how hard it is in the beginning, but marvel at how well the little ones adapt to changes and quickly settle into a routine. I love teaching them. I love to see their eyes shine bright and hear my name called loudly as they run into our room each morning eager to share their news. The pride I feel when they master a new task must equal one of a parent.
I cannot wait to see how we will all grow this school year.
Whimp

2011-07-21T10:24:00.000-05:00

Meet Ellie
This past May, our dog Tucker had a litter of pups. Seven little bundles of fur, ok so one wasn't so little. His name was Frank. Anyway, as the weeks progressed, Riles and one little female puppy formed an incredible bond with each other. When Riles would call her name, she would come to her, and when Riles walked in the door, here she would come. Soon it was time to say good-bye to the puppies and we listed them for free on craigslist. In 24 hours all the puppies had homes. Riles sobbed. and sobbed. and sobbed. She didn't want to say good bye to Ellie. She was her best friend in the whole wide world, and she would miss her for her whole life. (riles words). So, the night that the last puppy left and Ellie was the last one remaining, Papa (Blackie) said to Grandma Pat, "If the Riles wants to keep Ellie, I guess we can keep her here." So, that's how we became the proud "foster parents" of Ellie. Riles' best friend in the whole wide world. (Danny thinks she's pretty cool too.)
Whimp

2011-06-10T11:06:00.000-05:00

My Wish...

I had a moment today. A moment where I realized, yet again, I couldn't just simply "go ask my Dad" a question. Even after almost 8 years, these things sneak up on me and bring on the tears. Something as simple as an old family recipe, something that wasn't written down, brings on the melancholy.
It makes me wish I would have had the foresight to ask him questions and have him write his stories down. It doesn't matter if I had heard them all a thousand times before, I will never hear them again. What brought this on? My sisters have been talking about my Grandma Coates' recipes for baked mac and cheese and her baking powder biscuits (which is something I cannot make, no matter how many times I try). My dad was an only child. There isn't anyone to ask these questions. No one to give the answers.
I miss my dad today.
whimp

2011-06-02T08:44:00.000-05:00

Saying Thank You, isn't enough...
The kiddos and I went to see The Wall That Heals, the traveling Vietnam Wall exhibit. It was one of the most humbling experiences of my life. I hope my children understand the significance of those names and what they represent. I hope they understand Freedom isn't free.
Thank you to all who have fought, or are fighting for our freedom. The sacrifices you and your family make are honored and appreciated in our home.
Peace,
whimp

(Blackie's Cousin, he was just 21 years old.)

2011-05-31T21:10:00.000-05:00

Foodie...
That is what I am becoming. I love to watch the Food Network, Cooking Channel, and my new favorite love is to read food blogs. My new favorite: Mennonite Girls Can Cook.
whimp

2011-05-25T19:27:00.000-05:00

Excitement:
So incredibly excited for tomorrow. The sisters and I are going to see WICKED! I saw it last year (from the nose bleed section) and it was phenomenal, so I can't wait to see it tomorrow (from the orchestra floor), with some of my favorite people. My sister Dianne absolutely loves the Wizard of Oz, (and so do both of her grandbabies) and I think I am more excited to see her reaction to it than to see the show! :)
I will be sure to blog a follow-up post
wendy

2011-04-30T21:30:00.002-05:00

My Heavy Heart....

Today my hubby, Danno, and I made a journey up north so Danny could visit Troy. In prison. It was the most difficult decision (and journey) I have ever made as a parent. Danny came to me approximately 2 years ago, when Troy sent him a birthday card. He was almost livid. His comment to me was something like this "Why does he think it's ok he calls me son, or send me a birthday card? Why NOW? How come I wasn't good enough to be his son when I was 6, or 10? Why am I only good enough when he goes to jail?I don't understand. What's wrong with me when he isn't in jail"
I had to look into that face, a face who lights up a room with one smile, and say "I don't have the answers you need. Unfortunately, the only person who has them is Troy. Those are questions you have to ask him. I'm sorry I can't give you the answers you need." Danny's response was "Then let's go. I want to talk to him. I want to see his face." So, we applied for a visitor's pass to take Danno to see him.
Danny was denied.
So, this past February we applied again. He was denied for the second time.
I had to apply for an appeal to the warden for Danny to be approved. Troy had completed the classes for Danny to visit by then. Danny was approved in March.

So, today I watched my son climb into our van and anxiously ride for 3.5 hours to seek the answers he so desparately needed. The only thing is, he didn't ask them. This time. He said "I want to get to know him, before I ask him why." My heart broke today as I sat and watched a grown man, and a tenderhearted boy try to forge a relationship. A relationship that should have been forged long ago. I was young, so was he. We created a child, and unfortunately it is he who paid the price. Not me. Not Troy. Danny. As I sat there and watched them learn to communicate, I felt a range of emotions. I felt guilty, angry, and hopeful.
GUILTY, because I don't think I have ever seen my son happier. Angry for the circumstances I put him in. No, I didn't deny Troy visitation. He was the one who chose not to have contact, but being young I made decisons that impacted his life. Would I do it all over again, absolutely. Have you met my son? He is splendidly awesome. :) Hopeful, because I see a man who is wiser, and I believe just as hopeful.

2011-03-23T13:43:00.000-05:00

Happy Birthday to my kiddos!
Both kiddos celebrated birthdays this week. Riles on Sunday and Danny today. We somewhat celebrated by going to the car show on Sunday, and we will have their birthday bowling party on Saturday. They loved the car show, especially watching the BMX bike stunt team perform. I just know I will be seeing riles and dude making ramps this summer. :) I cannot wait for summer vacation, nice warm and lazy days listening to the kiddos fight, going places and experiencing new things. Angela and I are planning on taking our kiddos back to KC this summer. One definite stop will be the Trex cafe. I can't wait.
I scrap with the girls in April, and look forward to that. We haven't been anywhere or scrapped together in a while. So long, in fact I was worried if we were still friends! Here are some pictures of the kiddos this past weekend.
Enjoy
whimp

2011-03-05T09:29:00.000-06:00

Updates on us...
not a lot to report on us. The kiddos will turn a year older (each) towards the end of the month. We are trying to plan a party that works for both of them. It is hard when there is such an age gap between them. Danny is doing well in school this year. The maturity and responsibility he has gained is amazing. Riles is still Riles. She loves school and enjoys learning. She is excited to change schools next year and be able to play with her friends in town after school. Danny...not so excited; however, once the school year gets started and he meets some new friends, I bet his outlook on it will change. I hope so. Chris and I have decided if he does not adjust well we can always change him back. He will be studying for his permit soon. I cannot believe he is old enough for this. The years have flown so fast.
I am looking forward to spring break and winding down of the school year. As I look back on the class from this year, I can see how much we have grown. Me as a teacher, and them as individuals. I will miss this class. Some of them, I have had for 2 years. Others I wish I had more time with, time to help them become more successful, and to cherish them a little longer. Sometimes, it breaks my heart to see them go on.
Happy Saturday.
whimp

2011-02-02T17:54:00.001-06:00

Ponderings of a young mind...
Tonight, as Riles and I were finishing the last touches on dinner (Chicken Alfredo), she said this to me. "I don't want to die. I'm scared to die." Me: "What brings this up for us to talk about big girl?" Riles (as tears fill those big, beautiful brown eyes) said "I've just been thinking about it. If I die, I have to grow up and leave here. I don't want to leave here. I want to be here with you and dad." Me: (who happens to be bawling at this time) said "Oh Riles, death isn't something to fear. You get to live with Jesus in his garden. You would get to see Grandpa Coates and Haddie. ("and Buddy!" she says), and sit on Jesus's lap or at his table and visit with him. The sun would shine everyday, and I bet rainbows appear too. Death is another step to living. We can't all live forever." Riles: "I just don't want to die. It scares me to bad." She then gave me the biggest bear hug and wouldn't let go. So, what do I say to her to calm her fears? She said she has been thinking about it "a lot on my mind lately." I don't know how to help her "get it off her mind."
whimp

2011-01-22T19:52:00.000-06:00

And the Wiener is...
Riles! Yep..she matched the dates to the puzzle game and got a wienie whistle (and they were so nice they gave her another one for Danny :)
We went to the dreaded W place today and lo and behold..there it sat. Now, I don't know if you know this faithful readers (all 3 of you), but I have secretly LOVED the wienie mobile all my life. *I* bought the hotwheel many years before I had children, and then found another one at a garage sale, score! I giggle everytime I see it. I know, it's right up there with my love for all things Sesame Street (which is the new cricut cartridge I just bought).
Here are the pictures of Miss Riles with the wieniemobile. (Danny didn't go: 1. He loathes grocering (as he used to call it), and 2. it wasn't supposed to be there until tomorrow, which is when we were going to make a drive specifically to see it.
Have a bunderful day!

whimp

2010-12-19T08:05:00.000-06:00

picture courtesy of foodiewithfamily.

Merry Christmas to all and to all...
hot chocolate on a stick? (complete with homemade marshmallows)

I found this recipe on the two peas message board. Riles and I are going to make them for her teacher, the principal, and Pam (secretary). I figured I would put them in a cute mug I saw at Michaels and voila..fabulous gift. Now, how many should I include? I was thinking six..

Recipe can be found here

2010-11-19T07:45:00.000-06:00

Crazy Kiddos...
The kids are going crazy lol. We have been busy, busy, busy. Keeping Riles busy during the winter is a high priority. This child has so much energy and is constantly on the move. She is active and loves to play in sports. Danny on the other hand is so easy going and is content to just lay around. I wanted to get them both involved in something ongoing, not just a seasonal sport. So we signed them up for Tae Kwon Do. I have never seen a happier child than Danny. The absolute delight and joy I see on his face at practice makes me wish I had done it sooner. I giggle every time I see Riles' stubby little body trying to do her kicks. She is not very coordinated, but gives it 110%! (She is also in girl scouts and basketball.) As soon as I take some pics of karate I will post them. :)
Meanwhile, here are some pics of Riles directing "traffic" on the road in front of our house. (Remember, it is a private lane and we can see up and down the lane)
whimp

2010-10-17T12:16:00.002-05:00

Finally, it's Fall..
and that means it is time for Vala's Pumpkin Patch. We haven't been to Vala's since 2005. FIVE years! So, yesterday Danny, Riles and I spent the day together exploring all the attractions new and old. We had an amazing time. For once, I let them navigate where we were going and what activities to do. It was stress free and fun for all of us. We didn't have an agenda or time limit; however, after 4.5 hours we were done, physically and mentally. They were tired, the crowds were getting heavier, and they wanted to buy their pumpkins. I took pictures sporadically, mostly of Riles (for some reason, Danny has developed an aversion to the camera..wonder why?). The highlight of the day? Eating the huge turkey legs and mining for gemstones.
Soon, I hope to get our family pictures taken while the leaves are still ON the trees and beautiful in color. I love this time of year, the leaves changing, the crisp, cool mornings, watching the kiddos exhale heavily, just to see their breath in the cold. Most of all, I love the excitement of hot cocoa on the way to school, comfort foods baked in the oven, and the anticipation of family holidays and time spent with our loved ones. I love this time of year.
Here are some pictures of the fun we had. :)

whimp

2010-09-22T17:59:00.002-05:00

A boy, a girl, and a love for music....
My kiddos Loooove music. All types. Be it country, rap, hard rock, heavy metal, new age, and Kid's bop...they love and listen to it all. It has been amazing to watch this fascination grow. Yesterday, Riles "reminded" me the new Zac Brown Band cd was being released. So, being the "good" mom I am, I stopped and picked up the cd for her and one (from a different artist) for Danno. It was (kinda) quiet in our house for at least 30 minutes while they listened to their new "tunes" with head phones. I love how diverse their interests are.
whimp

2010-08-29T11:40:00.003-05:00

Last trip of Summer 2010...

The kiddos, Angela and her son Randy, and I all loaded in Angie's van and went to Kansas City the first week in August. We had originally planned to see some museums in St. Joe, but discovered some were closed due to remodeling. In impromptu fashion, we drove to Kansas City to visit the WWI museum. However, we got sidetracked at Union Station. They have the BEST science/children's museum. Chris and I are planning a trip in October to take the kiddos again.

Here are some pictures of the fun we had. :)

Enjoy.

whimp

(crime lab) (Dinsoaurs Unearthed) (tree house in Science City) (music area)

2010-08-02T14:29:00.008-05:00

Cards

New cards...just been playing and using up some scraps. Enjoy!

wendy

scrapift back of CK jul/aug 2010

(happy face card scraplifted from a blog..sorry! don't remember who)

whew...just found the blog i lifted the happy face card from..lol.. www.beecraftee.com

2010-07-31T14:05:00.002-05:00

Ponderings from my scattered mind...
why do you think relationships and friendships deteriorate? I know these relationships need nurturing. I try. I really do. I don't always have the time, energy or money to participate in activities, parties, or weekends away. It doesn't mean I don't want to participate or spend time with my family or friends or nurture these relationships. Sometimes it would be nice to just hear "hey come over for a cup of coffee and visit with me for awhile." I know in my relationships with people, I could be a better wife, mother, aunt, sister, and friend. As I have said before it is something I am working on. I am a work in progress. Please be patient with me as I try to become the person I dream I can be.
wendy

2010-07-23T09:09:00.005-05:00

We went to the beach....

this past Monday, Danny, Dude, Riles and I hopped into the car, bought the essential "beach" items at Dollar Tree..(thank goodness for $1 trees!) and headed to Lake Manawa Beach. We were there for 3.5 hours and the kids were in the water the entire time! They loved it. We got some sunburn, not too bad, and made some great memories.

whimp

2010-07-14T06:50:00.002-05:00

The Seizure

It is 3:58 a.m. and all I hear is a blood curdling "Ahhhhhh, Ahhhhhh, Ahhhh, " and then he is silent. I jump out of bed, saying "danny, danny what is wrong?" as I hurry down the hall, through the dining room, and into his bedroom. I see him, lying on his bed, gasping for breath as his body seizes. I try to stay calm, calling to Chris "He's seizing." He asks me "do you want me to call the squad?" I say "No, he will come out of it." All the while, thinking to myself, "OMG this is taking to long..will he come out of it?" He slowly starts to take deeper breaths and his body starts to relax. He makes moaning noises now, and slowly tries to raise his head. I rub his arms and legs, talking to him the whole time. Telling him how brave he is and he will be fine. I always talk to him while he is having one. I want him to know I am there. I don't know if he hears me, but I just want him to feel safe. It is 4:00 a.m.

After about 5 minutes he looks at me and can talk again. He is weak. He needs help scooting up in bed and asks for a drink. He asks me to wipe his face and "can I have a hug?" It takes awhile for him to gain his strength and he then moves to the couch. "Can we rent a movie? I want to watch Percy Jackson." "I'm hungry now." So it begins. A new day. Just as we were getting too comfortable with his seizures being controlled, it sneaks back up and makes us aware.

Makes me aware how very much I love this boy.

whimp

2010-06-29T19:48:00.003-05:00

The Riles' Express...

This bike. This tree. This place. This time. It's special. Special to a little girl who dreams of being a "fiderfider" (fire fighter) and growing up to help people. "I just want to help people, mom."

This bike takes her places. Places in space, far away lands, and to her very best friend's in the whole wide world, Grandma Pat's.

At least three times a day, I cannot find her. I hear her call "I'm gonna go ride my bike, ok?" and then she disappears. Disappears to a place where ice cream before dinner doesn't matter, a place where someone is willing to put everything aside and give her their undivided attention, a place where tea parties are held, pretend fires are put out by the fire truck (it's ladder goes up, it's soo cool!) and a place where being 7 and asking a million questions is simply ok.

All of these things happen at home, too, just not as often as she would like them too.

This place

is magical.

2010-06-20T15:30:00.003-05:00

RAINBOW Cake

Riles, Danny and I made this cake today. (Recipe and photo courtesy of Whisk Kid...see side bar for her blog). It was a very long process, but the kids absolutely loved mixing up the colors, baking them, and then assembling the cake. I recommend doing all the prep work before you begin. It made mixing it a lot easier. (Also, this cake took me from 11:30-3:30 today)...not a quick and easy dessert. Hopefully the next time it will go smoother :) We are thinking of making a red, white and blue one for the 4th.

Here are some pics of the finished product before and after we cut it.

Danny, Riles, and whimp.

2010-05-27T20:02:00.003-05:00

Nothing says summer like....

corn on the cob, best friends, bike rides, and walks down a country road. All with your favorite people in the world... :)

have a safe and happy summer

whimp and co.

2010-05-16T09:43:00.010-05:00

TEAM HADLEIGH we love a broken heart...

Yesterday, my children and I participated in the Heart Walk in honor of Hadleigh. We all gathered in our red and white shirts that read "Team Hadleigh, we love a broken heart" on the front, and on the back, words I could barely look at "In memory of Hadleigh Ann Griffin Oct 12, 2007-Oct.16, 2009." It was a bittersweet day honoring someone so young. While on the walk, Riles and I had a conversation yesterday that absolutely broke my heart. She wanted to know why Haddie left a piece of her heart in Heaven with Jesus. It astounds me how much children comprehend the world around them. I don't remember sharing this story with Riles. We talked about it and then she said "I wish Haddie was still here." I believe we all made that wish several times. I know I did.

My children have always been diligent supporters for Hadleigh. They asked me one morning while driving to school if I would call in to the radio station and sign them up to be KAT BANDITS. There was a radiothon for children's hospital, and they wanted to raise money for Haddie, since she spent time there. Riles jump roped for heart, so she could "support kids who have heart stuff like Haddie does," and they walked almost 4 miles yesterday to honor her. Proudly wearing their red and white shirts.

Here is Haddie's Team. I was honored to walk with them in Haddie's honor.

Support Heart Disease. It knows no age.

whimp

(Team Hadleigh)

(Mike and Dude)

(the kiddos)

(waiting for the walk to begin)

(on our way to the event)

2010-04-25T13:53:00.002-05:00

Rainbow Cake...

I want to make this cake. I don't have enough gel food coloring colors (and probably should replace the ones I DO have...lol..) I also cannot find my two 9 inch cake pans. I know I have them. I used them for my wedding cake..but that was only what..8 years ago? lol.. I will find them. Then I will make this cake. So I can see the excitement in my kiddos eyes.

I have been sick for almost 2 weeks now. I haven't been any fun. Tired, sick, cranky. I wish it would go away so I can enjoy my kids.

Thanks to aunt brammy and uncle mike for taking my kiddos last night so I could rest. That was sweet of you, thanks.

whimp

(photo uploaded from whisk kid).

2010-04-11T17:56:00.004-05:00

Where has the time gone?

My children are now 7 and 13..It dawned on me today, I will only have him (Danny) in my care for 5 more years before the world sees him as an adult. Have I done enough? Have I done my part as a parent to ready him for that big ole world? Have I taught him enough about the dangers of drugs, alcohol, and the power of peer pressure? Where has the time gone? I thought for sure just yesterday he was a little thing following me around asking 100's of questions (at least he taught his sister well ;) My heart just aches thinking how fast time goes by. The same with Riles. She will be entering the 2nd grade in a few short months. It doesn't feel like too much time will pass before I will be saying the same about her.

whimp

2010-03-24T07:42:00.003-05:00

Happy 13th Birthday Danny!
(posted a day late..sorry)..
You have such an amazing personality. You are funny, kind, and generous. Please don't ever loose your sense of humor or curiousity. love you!
love,
mom

2010-03-20T05:34:00.000-05:00

HAPPY 7TH BIRTHDAY RILES!
We love you very much big girl.
I hope your day is awesome!
love,
mom

2010-03-14T09:13:00.003-05:00

Trip to Kansas and Scrapping all in one weekend...

Last weekend, Dianne and I traveled to Kansas to be with Tata. It was nice to visit Milford again after so many years. Not much has changed, and I managed to visit Dan before we left Friday morning. It was bittersweet seeing all the places he and I would go. After all these years, I still miss him. He was my buddy, best friend and the person I confided in. I often wonder what he would be like today.

On our way to Kansas, Dianne and I noticed signs for the Oz museum, of course we had to go and investigate. :) It was pretty cool. Dianne got to "meet" the lion of course. They also have an Oz winery, where most of the wines are named after Oz characters..witch in a ditch, run toto run, and The Lion's Courage were some of my favorite names. After driving home on Friday, I packed up my scrappin stuff and met my favorite women..Fickel and Mindy, in Fremont for a weekend of scrappin' fun. Thanks girlies for a good time. :)

Till next time,

whimp

(of course my eyes are closed..)

2010-02-14T13:35:00.005-06:00

Happy Heart Day!

Please support CHD (congenital Heart disease) and pray for all those affected by this disease. .....

Sorry it has been so long since I updated. There really isn't much happening in our neck of the woods, except we are all so tired of winter. Not much of a news flash is it? lol.. We are planning the kids' birthday party(ies), and think we have decided on a bowling party. Riles and Danno both received great grades on their report cards. It always blows me away when I look at them. I always think Danny just does the minimum required (which most of the time he does, takes after me he does.) but when I look at his report card it is really pretty good. Riley always has the same thing...exceeds expectations,but needs to worry about herself. :)

I am gearing up and looking forward to the next sister's breakfast this weekend, and then in two weeks Fickel, Mindy, and I are going to Fremont to a weekend crop there. I cannot wait! I am so excited. We have not been anywhere together (for a weekend) for awhile now.

Here are some after pics of Danny's Star Wars Lego set he received for Christmas.

Have a great week!

wendy

2010-01-31T17:14:00.003-06:00

Cousins

My kids are so luck to live close to their cousins. Whenever we get together it amazes me what they come up with and how much fun they have with each other. The boys are usually playing video games, army, or (if we are at the river) playing with the fire. This past fourth of july the love of fireworks by all was evident in all of the activities they did. From dude and riles on up, they had a good time. Here are some pictures from a happy time :) (can you tell I am ready for some warm weather?)

whimp

2009-12-25T20:59:00.003-06:00

Lego and Barn Wonderland

WOW. What a Christmas to remember. The (2nd) blizzard of 2009. Since Chris had to work today, we let the kiddos open their gifts last night and Santa came this morning. Danny spent the afternoon in his room sorting and putting (some) his Star Wars lego kit together, while Riles played with her barn and webkins. Here are some pictures of their fun.

Happy Holidays!

wendy

(2 of the 5 pans he used to sort his pieces)

2009-12-10T11:27:00.003-06:00

Our Virtual Holiday Card...:)

The kiddos went out and played in the snow today. While we were out there, Tucker and Sparta decided to come home for a visit (they have moved themselves in with Gma Pat and Papa Blackie). I loved this picture of the kids. Tucker is such a gentle dog. I am not an animal person AT ALL, but this dog and I are friends. When Riles was younger (4ish) and would walk to Gma's, Tucker (Shiloh, Gma's dog, would do the same thing) would walk along side her in the road (riles walks up the grass). If Riles would get to close to the road, Tucker would bark and nudge her back to "safety." Now, our road is a private dead end lane, hardly any cars go up and down it, and Gma Pat would stand at the end of her driveway and I would stand in our yard..both of us watching her make her way.

Here are some pictures of our snow day number three.

Enjoy

wendy

2009-12-06T15:31:00.005-06:00

O Christmas Tree, O Christmas Tree....

how happy you make me. We went and cut down our own tree this year at Horse Creek Tree Farm. What a fun experience. The kiddos absolutely loved it, and we will definitely make this our yearly tradition.Once we were done, we headed inside to have hot cocoa and warm up. Here are some pictures of the process and decorating it. Have a very Merry Christmas and holiday season from our family to yours. Peace on Earth.

Love,

Chris, Wendy, Danno and Riles.

Riles posed her stuffed animals..:)

2009-11-07T10:46:00.003-06:00

DON'T FAINT..

Riles has clothes on! lol.. she was outside today "finding" treasures on our road. (Now, before anyone has a heart attack and posts how irresponsible I am about letting her play on our road..we live in the middle of nowhere on a dead end street. Whoever comes down or up our road has a clear view.)

The "treasures" she was finding were soybeans the wagons dropped as they were coming down the road to fill the bins.

There are also pics of her riding her bike, and falling off of it as well.

Enjoy

wendy

2009-10-28T13:20:00.005-05:00

Pumpkin carving 101..riles and danny style

Chris and the kids carved pumpkins this weekend. Riles carved hers on Saturday, sorry no pics of that one..I was scrapping. She just couldn't wait. It is a tradition she usually does with her papa(blackie), but he has been sick with a nasty respiratory thing..that he caught from her. :) So, danno and Chris carved his Sunday night, I got pics. Danny is such a thoughtful little man. He let riles help.
Here is the night in pictures.

whimp

2009-10-24T08:06:00.003-05:00

Getting together with the girlies..and then a potluck.

I am going scrapping today with my girls, Fickel and Mindy. I have such an amazing friendship with both of them. It still humbles me when I think of how they are there for me..in life. Thank you girls. I could never have gotten through this past week without your support. Love you.

We haven't been friends long, just 3 short years, but I feel you have been here forever. Thank you for that.

So, we are packing our things, heading to Bellevue, and just scrapping away. The store there is small, but has an amazing crop room. Michaels is just around the corner if we need something she doesn't have.

I will leave early tonight to go to a family potluck at deanne's. I will get to see Turtis, Stacy, and Fay tonight. I love my Fay. I cannot imagine going through what they went through and are still facing everyday. I can't. But I know with the love and support from most of our family, they will get through this.
So, that is my day. I am finishing a christmas present, putting the pics in ron's journey book, and then scrapping my kiddos.
I will also try to talk fickel into doing a family photo shoot while the leaves are pretty. We don't have one. I want pictures of me and my kids, since I am the one who always takes the pictures (chris is intimidated by my camera :)

have a great weekend!

whimp

2009-10-16T22:33:00.005-05:00

Sweet, Sweet Baby....

You will never know how much you were loved, treasured,and admired. You were the strongest person I knew. You went through so much in your short time here on earth, and you did it all with a smile on your face. I will miss you Hadleigh Ann. Kiss my daddy for me and tell him I love him so.

I love you big girl,

aunt whimp

2009-10-05T19:54:00.003-05:00

Introducing......FRANKLIN!

I had the opportunity to buy a turtle from Craigslist (via a teacher from school). I said YES! She assured me there isn't too much care needed..just clean water and food..plus someone to play with him. So, I brought him home today. The kids are absolutely thrilled, and have been observing him all night long. We have taken him out and played with him and he is now tucked into his aquarium where he can swim and relax.

Here are some pictures..

whimp

2009-09-28T15:59:00.006-05:00

180 Days...
Wednesday will mark an amazing milestone for my brother. Ron will reach his 6 month (180 day) anniversary for being sober. I cannot even imagine the struggles he faces each day to overcome this addiction. I only know God has given us a great gift...180 more days to cherish our relationships with him.
Here is his celebration in pictures.
Whimp

2009-09-07T12:52:00.003-05:00

WoW! Don't faint..a new post!

School is going pretty good. I have a young class this year, mostly 3 year olds, but they sure like to work and play. It makes it easier when kids like to try new things. My own kiddos have settled into school nicely. Riles loves her teacher and danny likes the freedom jr. high brings. He isn't a child who likes to be poured into a mold. He likes to just be. He is my odd little duck, the one who can make me smile through the roughest storm, and my first born. I cannot wait to see what he becomes.
I haven't been up to much, my peeps and I are going out on Thursday night for Mindy's bday. Happy Early Birthday Mindy! Then Friday night I have a stampin up party to attend, and Saturday I am scrapping with the girlies. Can.not.wait.
I would also like to send out some get well soon vibes to Ed. He works with my brothers and was in a car accident over the weekend. Hope you feel better soon!

Here are some pics of recent layouts I did.

Have a good week.

wendy
riles frog pics
ron's van pics

danno

2009-08-24T20:36:00.004-05:00

Lots of updates...

School has started here in oz, Danny is officially a jr. high kiddo. Riles is a first grader, complete with no front teeth!

We took a trip to Boone a couple weeks ago. It was bittersweet for me, because I remember going there every summer while I was growing up. Mom and Dad always took us camping at the waterworks park with Uncle Bob and Aunt Peg. Now, it is an overgrown timber, the horse riding lesson academy isn't there anymore either. We then went down to see the Kate Shelley High Bridge. They are in the process of building a new one in front of the old bridge. :( One thing that hasn't changed was the shale pile. Kristi and I used to call it the meatloaf! lol.. We still do. On the way home, Chris and I had the boys in our van and we took a little side trip down the greenfield exit to go see the rock in rural iowa. Otherwise known as the freedom rock. Every year a local man paints the rock on Memorial Day to honor our countries veterans. Check out the website. It is really a very beautiful tribute.

Well, here are the pictures from our adventures, plus first day of school photos.

whimp

2009-08-15T07:53:00.002-05:00

How very thoughtful...
So, I was talking to my sister yesterday to wish them a happy belated 16th wedding anniversary (which was thursday) and she told me her children (ages 15, 13, 13) bought them a $50 gift certificate to Applebee's. HOW VERY THOUGHTFUL of her children. Sometimes after working with students (when I worked at a high school in CB), I am a bit jaded that there are still thoughtful teenagers out there. I was so proud of them, I told everyone at my meeting Friday what they did for their parents. Then I told them how very wonderful Brandy is to help out with the plans. ON her own birthday, she took the kids to the city to get the GC. HOW VERY thoughtful IS SHE? Brandy is absolutely one of the most amazing and unselfish people I have met. She will do anything for you if she can. The kids LOVE going to her house, because she lets them be KIDS. If you have a sick kiddo, she will take them so you can go to work. Thursday her REALLLLYYYY good friends RJ and Shawna surprised her with a present left on her doorstep. How cool are they?
So, happy belated birthday Brandy and Megan, and Happy belated anniversary Shell and Jason.
Job well done
whimp

2009-08-06T19:55:00.002-05:00

So busy...
Went back to work on Tuesday..ya..i know you all feel really sorry for me. I can just feel it. I can. trust.me. Anyway, i have been in meetings all week. I spent half a day Tuesday in my classroom..the furniture is where it needs to be, I have my calendar up, and will get more up on the walls next week. Anyway, I spent 3/4 (look mindy, i did math) of today in an inservice. It was one of the MOST inspiring speakers I have been too. The woman's name was Peggy Cambell Rush. She was there to talk to us today about writing in early childhood classrooms. It is hard to describe how elated and inspired I feel about using the simple everyday household items she described to help my students develop the fine motor skills needed to become successful writers. Once they have the process down, they can go anywhere. I will keep you updated! (and probably bore you too)
whimp

2009-07-29T16:30:00.002-05:00

ONE HUNDRED TWENTY...120 and counting
Congrats big brother. I love you very much!
whimp

2009-07-28T08:39:00.003-05:00

After 8 years, they are married..

and I have the pictures to prove it! Congrats Josh and Leslie..

2009-07-21T16:10:00.002-05:00

Annual Frog pictures...

riley loves to catch "frogs" at the river (they are really toads..but ya know life with a 6 year old). Every time we go to the river she goes hunting. She always brings them to me to "inspect", isn't she so sweet? Here are this years pictures (taken at Josh and Leslie's wedding. I am almost done editing photos..will post when i am finished).

whimp

2009-07-15T21:13:00.010-05:00

Welcome Home Zach!
Saturday we held a get together at the river to welcome Zach back home from Iraq. Michelle, Brandy and I got together and made t-shirts, we had tons of food, and tons of fun. Here are some pictures of the fun.

back of shirts

We can’t all be heroes…someone has to sit on the curb and clap as they go by.

eye candy (zach realizing what mike's shirt says.

Welcome Home Zach we missed you.

whimp

2009-07-14T21:28:00.002-05:00

Whew!
I have my laptop back. THANK YOU JEFFERY! The only thing is one of the keys is not working. Can you guess which one? hee hee.. They are going to be mailing me a keyboar(). The letter that isn't working is the first letter of my son's name. It is a little tricky thinking of new verbage to use to express myself. Anyway, I have most of my programs on the new system. Just got to put SCAL on. PSE, Office, & my MP3 player info is all that is left. Once I have a free moment I will put the pics from the 4th & Zach's party on the blog. I hope everyone has a great tomorrow!
whimp

2009-07-12T16:47:00.002-05:00

Closed.... Closed...
For construction

2009-07-02T16:54:00.003-05:00

Do you remember ...
This song?

It was made for Desert Storm. I remember watching the video and making of it on t.v when I was a freshman in high school. My older brother was over there and I remember sending a copy of the tape for him and his buddies to listen to. I remeber driving down the runway in Fort Riley KS to see him come home. I was supposed to go to prom that weekend with a boy from a neighboring town. I cancelled. I had to go see my brother come home. Why am I posting this? Because I almost lost him recently, only it wasn't a war that almost took him away. He celebrated 90 days of sobriety on Tuesday. Congratulations, Ron. I love you big brother.
whimpy

2009-07-01T09:35:00.002-05:00

Pondering...
At what time in your life do you quit allowing people to hurt you? When do you realize you will never measure up to their standards and just go on with your life? When does it stop? I know it will stop as soon as I quit giving them the power to hurt me. SO.. I guess it stops now. You no longer have the power to hurt me. Now, or in the future. I am sorry you won't get to know me further, know what exceptional people my children are or will be(nor will you be able to judge them or my parenting any longer). I am sorry you feel the need to be judgemental and petty. I hope your life and your children's lives are happy.
wendy

2009-06-29T16:36:00.004-05:00

Cropping for a Broken Heart...
Friday July 24th from 5pm-12am (or later :) ) we will be having a benefit crop to raise money to help Stacy, Curtis, Hadleigh, and Faylynn with living expenses while Hadleigh is in Milwaukee, WI waiting for her new heart. Who knew there was a cost to use Ronald McDonald House??!!?? More details will come so keep checking!
wendy

2009-06-25T11:54:00.006-05:00

T-Ball 2009...and a card for Less..

Riles played t-ball this summer and we had tons of fun! Here are some of the pictures we took at the last game.

Enjoy!

(card made snoopy snails font cut with SCAL on cricut, and bottom punched with EK Success swiss chees border punch, and decorated with hand dyed skittles! yay!)

2009-06-25T08:43:00.002-05:00

Happy Birthday Less Carpimer!
Today is my niece's FIFTEENTH birthday. WOW. I remember her sitting at the table at my mom and dad's when mike and brandy first got married (or something like that..they were together anyway) and you would ask her to say her name and it came out Less carpimer. We still call her that. So i wanted to shout out to her HAPPY BIRTHDAY and i hope you enjoy your seafood lasagne.

On another note, mom had a CAT scan done on Monday and all is clear. Looks good.
whimp

2009-06-24T10:14:00.003-05:00

Just a drive by to say HI...
and to post one of my most favorite quotes. This quote is laminated and used to hang on my desk when I worked as a library clerk in a high school. It now hangs beside my scrapbooking desk.

Watch your thoughts, for your thoughts become your words.
Watch your words, for your words become your actions.
Watch your actions, for your actions become your character.
Watch your character, for your character becomes your destiny.

I have tball pictures I will be posting soon.
whimp

2009-06-21T21:11:00.003-05:00

Howdy...
I had a great time at the crop this weekend with my cropping buds fickel and mindora. Did some shopping (haul included a new punch by EK success, "skittles", alcohol inks to dye said skittles, paper stack, and i forgot what else i bought), ate entirely too much, and only got 3 layouts done...lol..
I wanted to let everyone know I will be MIA for awhile. I got some stuff going on. If you need me, you know how to reach me. Before I "unplug", I just want to shout out have a safe trip for brammy and mike this weekend as they travel to welcome zachariah home. Please give him a big hug for me.
Peace, love, and happiness,
whimp

2009-06-18T09:18:00.003-05:00

Cards...

Here are some cards I have made lately. I made the ice cream cone card for my niece stacy's daughters (my great nieces) Faylynn and Hadleigh. I cannot even beging to tell you how much fun I have with these 2 girls. Hadleigh is like a bright light. When she smiles the whole room feels it. Fay is very spicy. She is another spirited soul just like my riles.

The card in the middle with the worm on it is for one of danny's 6th grade teachers (i am bad..just now getting it sent off). She went over and beyond to help danny this year. She was simply amazing.

The cupcake card is for stacy. The last few weeks have been so very hard for her, I thought she needed a smile.

enjoy

whimp

2009-06-15T14:58:00.004-05:00

Squirt..you're it..

Kenna came and spent the night last week. We made an impromptu visit to the dollar store to buy some new water guns. Here are some pictures of the fun.

whimp

2009-06-11T12:24:00.003-05:00

Layout For Haddie...

I went scrapping yesterday and made this layout for miss haddie. I will put a picture of her laughing, with her hair all done pretty, at stacy and turtis' wedding on it. I have decided this will go on my picture wall in a 12x12 frame. I have one of fay in my mind..just got to create it. It will be go there as well. If I keep this up of my nieces and nephews, I will need a bigger house! lol..

praying for the griffins

whimp

2009-06-11T08:39:00.003-05:00

Pray for Haddie..

Stacy posted an update on Haddie this morning. There really hasn't been much change since yesterday here is her post..

-No change really. She is still on the vent, her heart is now relying on her pacemaker so they are pretty sure they will have to put a permanet one in. Can't maintain blood pressure very well but she's "stable"-

I cannot begin to tell you how very much this little girl and her family mean to me. The relationships she has fostered in just her birth and being on this earth is astronomical. People her parents would never had met who are supporting them during this very difficult time would not have happpened if not for her. Hadleigh is (usually) a happy girl. She loves her daddy, momma, and big sister Faylynn(Fay) very much. I was there visiting her last Friday. Haddie woke up looking for Fay(we were reading a duckling book, which Fay LOVED)because she heard her voice. When Fay went to the bed and Stacy lifted her up, all I saw was this chubby little arm waving hi to Fay from the bed. It was so cute to witness that. Stacy and Curtis are amazing parents. The love they have for each other and their children is evident in everything they do. Please pray for them. Even if you are not the praying kind, please pass on this info to someone who will. PLEASE. We need everyone's prayers for this strong, brave girl.

There has been a group started on Facebook. Praying for Miss Hadleigh. Please join us. There is a profile picture available on the cause's page if you would like to make it yours.

Thank you for taking the time to think about our girl and her family.

wendy

2009-06-09T11:06:00.002-05:00

Monday madness and an email..
Yesterday Riles and I went shopping. I had a 40% off coupon and an exchange card from Hobby Lobby I wanted to use to buy a cuttlebug machine to use for embossing on my cards and scapbook layouts. So I went to the CB store to buy the machine and of course you have to ask a someone to bring it to you, and it takes about 5 light years to do so. Riles was being pretty good, and I heard the cashier asking for the assistant store manager to bring it up to the register. Well, she gets there and it is the same manager who would not return a cricut cart because it didn't have a HL price tag on it (nor did I have a receipt..different story for a different day) and proceeded to sell me TWO more carts WITHOUT price tags on them..anyway, i will stay focused.
She tells me I cannot use my coupon on the cuttlebug because Cricut products are excluded. I had to explain to her Cuttlebug is produced by the makers of Cricut, it is NOT a Cricut product. Cricut is an electronic die cuttin machine, cartridges, paper, blades, tools etc to use of that machine. Cuttlebug is an entirely different system. So, I ask to speak to the General Manager..who happens to be standing right there. He calls another HL store and asks them what they do, after that call he turns to me and says, "I will honor it this one time." WTH?? Anyway, I proceed to explain to him the same thing I tell the Asst. I was so frustrated as the day went on , I decided to take the advice of Karen and email the company. So I did and here is my email and their response:
Today I was in your Council Bluffs, Iowa store and attempted to use a coupon on the Cuttlebug machine. The assistant store manager, Diane, told the cashier I would not be able to use the coupon because it was a Cricut product. I talked to the store manager, Ben, and he said he would allow it "this one time." I also explained to both managers Cuttlebug is NOT a Cricut product. It is produced by ProvoCraft (who also produces the Cricut machine) but it is not classified as Cricut..it is an entirely different die cutting machine. I am frustrated with Diane from many different instances in the past. I had trouble exchanging a cricut cartridge because I did not have my receipt nor did it have a HL price tag on it. Well, I returned the cartridge at a different location (15 miles away) and returned to the Council Bluffs location to purchase 2 other cricut cartridges. When she handed me the cartridges, neither cartridge had a HL price tag on it. When I asked her to tag them, she was very rude and informed me she had other things to accomplish. I am frustrated with this store and have considered to stop shopping there, preferring to go 15 miles out of my way and shop at Michael's in Nebraska. My request is for someone with authority to let the managers know which products fall under the Cricut category and cannot have a coupon used on them. I would also like to have someone with authority (I have talked to the General Manager about her rudeness) talk to Diane about her "bedside manner."
Thank you for your time.
wendy blackman

Hi Wendy,
Thank you for your e-mail.
I am sorry that this happened to you and this has been addressed with Ben, the store manager at this location. This is not the impression we want anyone to have of Hobby Lobby and our customer service. Please ask to speak with the store manager if you have any questions or concerns while shopping in any of our stores.

I talked this morning with Ben, the store manager, about your situation at the store on Monday. He said he is aware that our coupon can be used for Cuttlebug since this is not a Cricut item. Ben said he will take the appropriate action with Diane and his staff so hopefully this does not happen again to you or anyone else in the future. Again, I apologize.

Your feedback on the performance of our stores is very important. Thank you for taking the time to tell us about your experiences with our store and giving us the opportunity to improve our service for you.

Thank you for shopping at Hobby Lobby. I hope that all of your future visits are pleasant and productive.

Wayne Huffling
Hobby Lobby Customer Service Manager

So, I have printed this response out and am keeping it in my purse for future shopping trips.
I hope everyone has a great day
wendy

2009-06-07T11:25:00.002-05:00

Maui Days..

We went to Maui in M today. The kids had a lot of fun and i enjoyed spending the day with my sister, niece, and nephews. We started the day with a pancake breakfast, "punch card activity", and then hit the games. Here are some pics of the day..danny and riles posing on the old firetruck. We used to get firetruck rides on this engine when I was in elementary school, the volunteer fire dept gave free fire truck rides during the day. We didn't get to go :( Other pics are bounce house, train ride, C&M's and of course tractors.

Riley's favorite part of the day was the bounce house, the train barrel ride, and of course the john deere tractors! Danny loved being able to just walk around town, putt putt golf, and climbing around on all the tractors.

have a great sunday!

whimp

2009-06-03T21:02:00.002-05:00

Funny little peeps..
this is how the conversation went with danny and riley...
Danny: who are you??
Riley: I am a riley..
Danny: what is a riley?
Riley: It is a girl who talks like a human (insert hand gestures here..not bad ones! lol.. like she is trying to use sign language ones..).. roflol!
wendy

2009-06-03T20:56:00.002-05:00

Found this post on the Cricut board
it is from the Dr. Laura website...we are making cards tomorrow and mailing them as soon as they are done..

Subject:
Send a Note of "Thank You For Your Service and Happy Birthday" to Sgt. Thornhill
Date:
2009-06-03
Send a Note of "Thank You For Your Service and Happy Birthday" to Sgt. Thornhill. Sgt. Daniel Thornhill was seriously injured in Afghanistan two years ago by a suicide bomber. This soldier has lost both legs, is paralyzed from the waist down and has suffered severe burns over his arms, hands and body. He has been rehabbing at the Fisher House in Fort Sam Houston, Texas. (WOAI.com article: Veteran loses limbs in battle, but not hope) His parents have reached out for support -- not financially, but they are asking for as many service members, veterans, and others as possible to please send him a birthday card. His birthday is this coming week and it would be nice if a lot of us send him a note to show him how much we love him for what he has sacrificed for his country. And if you're in the in the San Antonio area, stop by and visit not only this troop but others who may be in the same situation and Sgt. Thornhill and his family. Please brighten the day of a hero.
Mailing address:Sgt. Daniel Thornhill
Fort Sam Houston Fisher House
3623 George C. Beach Rd
Fort Sam Houston, Texas 78234

2009-06-01T19:04:00.004-05:00

My "New" Scrap space..

I revamped my scap space the past couple of weeks. I had a huge 6 ft banquet table in this space and it really took up too much room..plus it was a huge dumping ground. Well..thanks to my good friends (who helped me use 3 mike's coupons at once..lol..thanks girls) I bought 5 jetmax cubes from mikes and made my new space. I need one more, but want one that has 2 shelves in it..waiting for mikes to get them in...preferrably this week as I have a 50% off coupon.

Anyway, the tabletop is 4ft long by 28 inches wide ( i think..premade shelf from menards). The top shelf is albums 2 of them are completed, the rest are empty, the bottom shelf is for something..just haven't figured out what yet.

This is going to be my "cutting space". I plan on putting the other cube right on top of the other one, and placing another premade shelf on top of those. I will then sit my expression on top so it has it's own "home."

It isn't much, but man I am so organized now. I have a more efficient space to scrap when I am at home. (the turkey is one danny made when he was in pre-k..isn't it cute?)

whimp

2009-06-01T18:22:00.002-05:00

Cheap, Easy, and tasty..I got this idea from shell and dianne. One of shell's favorite meals the kiddos like is ground beef mixed in a box of Rice a Roni's broccoli augratin rice mix. YUMMO! Seriously. Totally easy. Dianne's version is ground beef, stewed tomatos, and the spanish rice mix. Well, i had a pound of ground sausage, the spanish rice mix, and tomatos...YUMMO! I added some sour cream to mine and OMG! it was good.
This is for one of those nights you just don't want to cook..and want something easy. It is good for lunches too!
You will need

1 box of Rice a Roni Spanish Rice mix (or broccoli augratin)
1 pound of ground beef or sausage
1 can stewed tomatoes(if using broccoli augratin, do not add tomatoes, unless you want to)
Make the rice according to the package, once rice is done add meat. Enjoy!

(There is also a fried rice mix, I am going to try that next week with some chicken chunks, broccoli, carrots for a lunch for the kiddos).
whimp

2009-05-31T12:06:00.002-05:00

Look what i found yesterday..

at a garage sale. Riley has been having a ball in it this morning. She has filled it with her hotwheel garage, woody, jessie, and buzz lightyear. They are all "camping".

I have been looking for a small tee-pee for my classroom to put in the dramatic play area. We have a camping theme every spring, and around Thanksgiving I put native american toys (buffalo, teepee, and several native american toy figures) in this area as one of the many themes I change it into. So it will serve a double purpose at school, and provide my kiddos a lot of fun too.

wendy

2009-05-28T15:23:00.001-05:00

Finally..

GOT MY CONTRACT TODAY FOR NEXT YEAR!! WAHOOOO!!!!
whimp

2009-05-28T07:03:00.001-05:00

First day of summer vacation...
and I was up at 6:30!
whimp

2009-05-25T13:46:00.003-05:00

WICKED...

was phenomonal, absolutely amazing, and I had the BEST time ever with my two favorite peeps (fickel and mindy). We ate dinner at Old Chicago and then walked up the street to the Orpheum to get pics outside the theater. Words cannot describe how amazing this musical was. We couldn't take pics inside the theater of course, but here are some I found on google images. The other pics are ones we took. Mindy and I by the big O! downtown...we had to have a pic of Mindy actually carrying a PURSE!

whimp

2009-05-24T09:14:00.005-05:00

River Fun 2009

We went to the river yesterday for the first time in 2009. We had such a good time! I can't wait for the next time now. Here are some pics of the fun.
whimp

(kynnedi had to potty)

2009-05-23T07:00:00.004-05:00

Poppies..
I bought poppies everyday this week whenever I saw them. I remember Dad would buy them and tuck them into his shirt pocket, around the button on the top of his hat, or sit them on the seat in his truck. I remember the woman who used to sell them here in M. Her name was Sylvia and she was old when I was very young. I don't remember how old she was when she passed, but I remember the saddness I felt the next Memorial Day when she wasn't selling poppies by Mulhollands or Caseys. I have tried to explain the importance to my children of buying poppies, the significance to support those who died to keep us free because they gave the ultimate price for their beliefs. I want to teach them to honor people, remember their sacrifices, and isn't it awesome to have HEROS? My children have been so lucky to have many heros amongst them in our family. Grandpas, Dads, Uncles,and Friends (Zach) who have served for their country. Grandmas, Moms, and Aunts (and sometimes themselves) who waited at home for them to return. How very lucky are we to have real life heros to look up to?
On this holiday weekend, please take the time to remember those who have fallen to help us maintain the freedom we live in.

In Flanders Fields
In Flanders fields the poppies blow
Between the crosses, row on row,
That mark our place; and in the sky
The larks, still bravely singing, fly
Scarce heard amid the guns below.
We are the dead. Short days ago
We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow,
Loved, and were loved, and now we lie
In Flanders fields.
Take up our quarrel with the foe:
To you from failing hands we throw
The torch; be yours to hold it high.
If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
In Flanders fields.

Remembering, thanking, honoring,
wendy

2009-05-23T06:51:00.004-05:00

Going to the river and we're gonna get diiirrrtyyy.

Wahoo! The first river trip of the summer. I can't wait. It is so much fun to go and hang out with my family peeps. Riles is up already and asking when we get to go. She needs a bath, but I think she can go dirty, just this ONE time. :) I have my camera ready to go (if i don't forget it), bought insect repellant yesterday, AND bought Danno a container of worms so he can go fishing. *sigh* Where has the time gone with him? He is such a wonderful soul. He loves to laugh and beat on his sister. He has such a caring heart (he buys her stuff all the time, he makes sure she is included), and he loves to fish. We (danno, riles, and I) have made such wonderful plans for this summer. We are going to try to go to living history farms, the lincoln children's museum, the elephant museum, Cocoa Keys (thanks for the great deal on tickets mindy), and they both want to go to Worlds of Fun (I don't know how much that will cost..we have a budget).
Wish us luck as summer starts!
Hugs,
whimp

2009-05-17T10:02:00.006-05:00

South Dakota...

Here are some pictures from south dakota. (I lifted these from Karen).

It was such an amazing crop (I know it was because we sat RIGHT next to Stacy Julian and Wendy Smedley, but I still had fun.)

Enjoy

wendy

Here we are:

(wendys cubed..we all share the same name! Believe it or not, Wendy is not a common name, but here we are THREE of us at one crop).

(Costco moment..you just had to be there to understand)

Here I am with Wendy and Stacy

2009-05-13T16:23:00.001-05:00

Proud moment...

Both of my kiddos had field trips today. Danny went to CB to railroad museums and such and Riles went to the L children's museum. Danny took extra cash with him(provided by me of course :) ) and brought home not one, but TWO sound maker thingies..one for riles and one for him. How sweet is he to think of his sister too?

I am so very proud of him for his thoughtfulness...(cause we all know she is a stinker!)

whimp

2009-05-10T19:31:00.004-05:00

Fun times..
i had a fun time this weekend. It was a lot of fun with old friends. I am home, tired, and want to read my book. I got the kids a set of balloons from Target (karen's good idea) and they are having a ball. On another note a I have some things on my mind and am trying to sort them all out.

Fickel, I have your cartridge. I will bring it to you on Saturday.

have a good week
whimp

2009-05-04T20:33:00.002-05:00

Hi
Just thought I would pop in and say hi. I am still here, just busy with end of year stuff at school. Things are gonna get crazy.
whimp

2009-04-23T18:12:00.002-05:00

Got my donation packet..
for Haddie's heart walk. Her team name is "Team Hadleigh, We love a broken heart". For those of you who don't know Haddie's story...
Hadleigh is my great-niece who was born in October 2007 with Hypoplastic left heart syndrome..which means she has half a heart. She has had the first of three surgeries and is being screened next month to see if she is ready for her second stage surgery. We are walking next month to help raise money (similar to walk for a cure) for congenital heart defects. Please consider donating to a wonderful cause.
If you would like to donate, please don't hesitate to call me or email me!
thanks for being generous
wendy and haddie

2009-04-19T10:09:00.003-05:00

Hi...
wow..what a busy crazy couple weeks. Last week my brother had his back surgery (wednesday) and came home yesterday. We had planned a dinner at mom's prior to his homecoming, so his first day at home was crazy and busy. We didn't know he would be released so soon! Anyway, on my many blog visits today, I saw a quote by matt at dear spike love dad.

"It's nice to do well in school. But it's better to do well in life."
This quote says a lot to me. I have been reflecting on the guilt I feel when dad was in the hospital before he passed away. My father was in the hospital more than he was home the last year of his life. I remember after I had Riles he was home for about 3 weeks and I would take her up to see him while I was on maternity leave. He didn't feel strong enough to hold her because the medicine he took made him shake. This was very hard for my dad because the first thing he wanted when he had a new grandbaby was to hold them. I would set her carseat by the couch and he would talk to her and when she would start to cry tell me "She's startin' to squeak in here." I am glad he got to meet her. When he went back into the hospital before he had his surgery, we "smuggled" her in to see him. I didn't get to spend a lot of time when my dad was in the hospital. I worked through the day and 2 nights a week (5:30pm-11:00) and on saturdays (8:30-3) I had classes to finish my teaching degree. My dad also had some type of infection for a while that prevented me from being there since I was pregnant. We (sisters) tried to remember what it was, but we couldn't.
Anyway, after his surgery he contacted a staph infection which ultimately led to his death. This is what started to cause his body to shut down. It was summer, I still had classes on Tues/Thurs nights and Saturdays, and mom and I went to the hospital through the week. I still have felt I didn't spend enough time with him. The university I attended docked me attendance points when I gave birth to Riley (I had her on a Thursday, so I missed my Thursday night class, Saturday class (two separate classes), but attended the Tuesday night class). One of the instructors I had at the time dad was dying refused to let me email her my papers as I got them finished. They weren't late, but I had borrowed a laptop from work and typed while mom and I were visiting. Her response was "It would be an extra cost to print them for the university." I volunteered to buy ink, paper, etc. I finally had to go to the dean to get permission to do this. The night my father passed away was before one of my last nights of classes. I was docked attendance points again for missing part of class because we were finalizing the details of the funeral.
I guess what i am saying in this post is, I wish i would have had enough backbone to do well in life, instead of school during this time.
wendy

2009-04-13T20:35:00.001-05:00

bah..
just in a funk. got my mother's day cards finished..but can't post them. that's ok tho, cause they were a total scraplift of one i saw last week. i just used a different stamp. they are sooooo cute tho.
i hope my mood doesn't last long.. lots of things to think about this week
whimp

2009-04-09T11:46:00.003-05:00

And now..

I can share the word album I made for a friend to give her cousin as a baby gift.. It is being delivered to bonnie today, so here it is. It spells KAYDIN. I cut the name out with SCAL using my cricut, the paper is Animal Crackers by DCWV and all animals were cut out from the Animal Kingdom cricut cart. I don't remember the font i used for the name sorry! I also used the distressed stickles to give the frog and alligator some texture. Thanks to mindy for introducing me to the distressed ones! lol

enjoy

whimp

2009-04-07T09:14:00.003-05:00

How FREAKING cool is this?

Cindy and Karen always send me the cutest recipes for kids. I enjoy making fun recipes with my kiddos, both like to cook very much. I believe Riles knows the chocolate chip cookie recipe by memory. Anyway, yesterday I started my spring break, and today riles is home with me..with a 100.3 fever keeping us company. Aunt Cindy sent us an email with a recipe for rainbow cupcakes and rainbow cakes! How cool is this? We are going to try to make it for Easter dinner I think. Here is what it looks like.. (riles wants me to say love her, daddy, danny, mom, bubba, justin, uncle brandy, aunt mike, (HAHA), celeste, and katelyn.) (photo from Omnomicon blog)

2009-04-05T19:07:00.002-05:00

Thank you...
isn't enough. Thank you to everyone who has called, emailed, donated, or stopped to ask us how Ron is doing. He is doing well. They removed the ventilator yesterday, and had him sitting in a chair this afternoon. We truly appreciate everyone's concerns and prayers.
whimp

2009-03-30T23:28:00.002-05:00

Please pray for us...
My older brother was in a seriously bad car accident today. We (sisters and bob) just got home from the hospital. He was life flighted to Creighton where he is in critical (we assume) but stable condition. He has a long road of recovery ahead of him. Please keep us in your prayers. We love him so very much.
with thanks
wendy and family

2009-03-28T10:56:00.003-05:00

Spin-Tacular Event

We went to school last night for a free program to help raise money to build a new outdoor sports complex for the school. The complex will include a second gymnasium for the elementary. It included redoing the football field and track. There are other things involved including a fitness room, etc.
The spintacular event was a program called Champions Forever. Champions forever is a man, his wife, and their 12 children. Bruce Crevier and his family travel the world, spreading the word, and putting on a fantastic show. He is a 4x Guiness World Record Holder for spinning the most basketballs at once. I believe the highest number he has done is 21.

Riles came home very excited about the program they had at school. She kept telling me "He rides a giraffe unicyle that is 10 feet tall!" "Please take your camera so you can get a picture of it for me?" She asked so politely. So, of course we had to go see. It was a great show and we got to visit with aunt shell.

Here are some pics of the event.

whimp

2009-03-23T20:33:00.004-05:00

Happy Birfday Danny!

You are a perfectly amazing young man. I have enjoyed every minute of being your momma (ok..we could have lived without the stopped breathing at 2 months, the seizures, and screaming at your sister). You have made my life richer simply by being in it. I hope your birthday was everything you wanted..with chinese food thrown in for good measure.
Love,
mom

2009-03-22T09:54:00.005-05:00

Best part of the party..

COUSINS!

The party was fun, lots of cake was eaten, and three boys played wii into the night...

Danny and riles love their birthday presents. Dude came over and got to play all day with the riles. Logan and Brandon spent the night..even J.J. came to visit! I think everyone had a good time. Here are some pics to share with everyone. Thanks for coming and making the party great!

danny, riles, whimp, and chris

2009-03-19T21:08:00.003-05:00

Happy Birfday Riles!
I love you lots and lots, and lots, and lots, and lots. I am so glad you picked me to be your momma. (most days) I hope we have fun tomorrow on your birthday. I hope I remember to take prozac before we go. (chuck E. cheese's)
love,
momma

2009-03-16T18:31:00.003-05:00

Her gap tooth grin...

Riles lost her very first tooth yesterday. sigh.. guess I better go get some tooth fairy paper huh? lol... She got $4.00 from the tooth fairy! WOW.. i guess the toothfairy is the ONLY one not affected by the economy. We have an exciting week this week. I have conferences at school for my classroom on wednesday and thursday, the kids' conferences is tomorrow night.. and on Friday it is RILES 6th BIRTHDAY! YAY! We are having their party together on Saturday because DANNY'S 12th BIRTHDAY is on MONDAY. Wahoo.. almost a teenager..yikes. crazy. I can't wait for them to open their birthday present. I think i am more excited then they are.

lol.. Here are pics of gappy.

whimp

2009-03-08T16:33:00.005-05:00

Goodness...

Cindy and I went shopping on Saturday. We stopped at Fareway and discovered fresh strawberries were on sale. Strawberries just happen to be Riles very favorite thing. So I picked some up for her, and radishes for danny..sigh.. he is an odd little duck ya know.
Here are some pics of Riles eating her strawberry goodness. I am broke, so no pics of danno. He has a "publishing" fee. lol

whimp

2009-03-03T19:22:00.007-06:00

Wanting to get these for my kiddos.
http://lovelife.typepad.com/buy_lovelife/buy-custom-youareawesome-posters-here.html

Danny wants the cat or monkey, and riles wants the elephant.

Now, what should their words be? i thought spirited for riles and amazing for danny. What do you think. Positive words please.

thanks

wendy

2009-03-02T19:13:00.003-06:00

Gearing up for another *girls* weekend..

Fickel, Mindy, and I are going to be heading to the middle of cornhusker land next weekend. We are attending a weekend long crop, and possibly state basketball tournaments, good luck Justin! I can't wait. I enjoy my time with these two immensely.

I have taken a personal day next Friday, as we head down on Thursday night. Thanks to momma pat and papa for helping get the kiddos to school on Friday. I love you both very much!

We (ok, I) spent the weekend cleaning out my house. Ugh. This job SUCKED. (Don't you just love my advanced vocabulary? lol) I cleaned out the kids rooms, the two hall closets, most of the toys in the front room(1 tub is left, mostly stuff Riles' plays with everyday), and the entry way. My big ole body hurt in places I didn't know I had! It feels so good to be decluttered. The next item on the agenda is cleaning out cupboards and scrapping stuff. I am going to wait to do this during our week long spring break. My kids will be in school, chris will be working, and I will be home cleaning and scrapping! Wahoo. This summer chris will tackle the outside.

I am in the beginning stages of weeding out 3000 children's books. Yes 3000! I have made a dent, but not a big one. (I will donate these items to a homeless shelter for their family area.) I am addicted to ordering books from Scholastic! lol.. I loved book orders as a child as well. Reading was and is one of my favorite hobbies. Both of my children love to read as well and I am so happy this is one of the things i can enjoy with them.(just never, ever take us all to a bookstore together!) It never mattered how low I was, as long as I had a book to read, the world was a better place. In fact, if I haven't read a "good" book in a while, I actually start feeling aggitated.

I wanted to post some pics of the last girls weekend with my sisters. We had a blast, and can't wait for our next adventure!

peace, love, and happiness (hey, isn't that a song?)

whimp

2009-02-24T21:04:00.002-06:00

Sucks to have nothing to say..
imagine that, me, nothing to say. School was draining today. This is about the time of year, the kindergarten bound students are ready to be "big kids" and go to kindy, and we teachers are dreaming of summer :). It is also time for the most growth, and then things will start to taper off again.
Went on sister breakfast "event" this past weekend. We had lots of food, fun, alcohol, and shopping. It is always nice to get together and have fun. It is always nice to get away. I just wish everyone got to experience a guilt free weekend like most of us do.
I talked to uncle froot loop today. He and his wife have agreed to take on the riles and danno if anything would happen to us. This is such a hard task and hard decisions you never want to talk about, let alone act upon, until you have too. We will be visiting our attorney soon to put things in motion.
I don't want my kids separated if something should happen. As we all know, Chris is not danny's biological father. I have to will danny to him! lol.. I need to take care of these things in case something should happen, and since danny's biological egg splitting chromosonal (is that even a word) assistant is incarcerated for the next 26 years (his TENTATIVE release date is 2019..danny will be 22), I have to have a plan.
We will be celebrating the kiddos birthday next month. They both want Star Wars cakes. go figure. At least it will be easier on the decorations. Still haven't figured out if we are renting the comm center in T, or M.
I will get the pics from our weekend posted soon.
hugs
wendy

2009-02-17T18:32:00.002-06:00

Love me some playdough...
I make my own playdough for school. One simple reason, it's cheap. Other reasons, it makes a big batch, I can put GLITTER in it, and it is super, super soft and lasts longer than store bought.
I got this recipe from a blog called Make and Takes last summer. LOVE IT (said in my best wheezy voice from dragon tales).

Play Dough Recipe (this can be halved for smaller ball)
2 c. Flour
½ c. Salt
2 c. Water
2 T. Vegetable Oil
¼ c. Cream of Tartar (found in spice section)
Pour all ingredients into a large saucepan. Food coloring can be added here if desired, 5-7 drops. Turn to med-high heat and stir constantly until the mix becomes very warm and starts to form together, about 3-5 minutes. Do not over heat, it will burn. Continue stirring until the mix forms into a playdough ball. Remove from heat and pour ball onto a wax paper sheet. Let cool for a few minutes and then knead until soft, 2-3 minutes. Food coloring can also be added during the kneading process as well, especially if you want to split the dough and use 2 or more colors. I suggest wearing baggies over your hands if doing this. Store your play dough in a ziplock bag and in an air tight container in the refrigerator for up to 3 months, or until little white spots develop.

I DO NOT REFRIGERATE my playdough. It hasn't gone bad yet. Lasts for about 1 1/2 months with kids playing with it everyday at center time.
Enjoy

2009-02-15T17:30:00.002-06:00

Chicken Pot Pie..
recipe I got from brandy.. is AWESOME! I put the chicken in the crockpot early this a.m. and then I doubled the recipe, used store bought pie crusts (gasp!) and used mixed veggies and an extra bag of corn insted of just peas and carrots. I could have used a bit more salt, pepper, garlic, but i didn't want to overpower it. Next time I make it, i will add more. AND i will also add some potatoes (cindy suggested the southern style hashbrowns). Good idea.
try it, you'll like it.
whimp

2009-02-14T07:47:00.006-06:00

Hug them tighter, squeeze them longer, and love them just a little more each day.

This week is CHD Awareness Week. Congenital Heart Defects affect 1 in every 100 babies, that's 40,000 a year in the United States alone. Congenital heart defects are the leading cause of all infant deaths in the United States. Each year over 1,000,000 babies are born worldwide with a congenital heart defect. 100,000 of them will not live to see their first birthday and thousands more die before they reach adulthood. In the United States, twice as many children die from congenital heart defects each year than from all forms of childhood cancer combined, yet funding for pediatric cancer research is five times higher than funding for CHD. Congenital heart defects are common and deadly, yet CHD research is grossly under-funded relative to the prevalence of the disease.Only one penny of every dollar donated to the American Heart Association goes towards congenital heart defect research.Of every dollar the government spends on medical funding only a fraction of a penny is directed toward congenital heart defect research.(Source: Children's Heart Foundation)Our babies depend on awareness, which will raise funding, which through research, will save so many lives! If you tell just one person about CHD that is one more person that is aware of it, and that just might save one life.Today Curtis and Stacy are holding a "heart" party for Hadleigh. Hadleigh is my great-niece who was born with a CHD called Hypoplasty Left Heart Syndrome, which means part of her heart is missing. It can be repaired with a series of surgeries, I believe 3, she has had the first stage,and it waiting on the second stage. She is such a good baby. I call her the Mighty One. We are going to the heart party tonight. I have wanted to make something for Haddie for a long time. I didn't quite know how, or what I wanted to do. Well, with my trusty Cricut and SCAL program, I made her a word book of her name (well, HADDIE because I didn't have paper long enough to cut HADLEIGH). Here it is,

sorry for the weird colors. (The book is sky blue, brown, pink,and lime green). I hope everyone has a wonderful Valentine's Day. Happy Heart Day Haddie! We love you mighty one.

Love,

whimp and family